23 Things I Learned By 23

Birthdays are not only a time for celebration but also reflection. 22 was an amazing year filled with highs and lows, just like most years. This year was one of uncomfortable growth that allowed me to come into my own. I gained a certain kind of self awareness, that blossomed into a new confidence. Here are 23 things I've learned by 23.

1. You don't have to be nice, just be kind

2. It's ok that people don't like you

3. It's ok to walk away

4. All things require effort (friendship jobs etc)

5. Love is key

6. You don't need to be surrounded by people to feel whole

7. You are always exactly where you need to be at the moment

8. Protect your peace at all cost

9. Being an open book won't make people like you

10. You can't force anything

11. You must let go of the idea of perfection

12. Movies make me happy

13. Being a light in the world is important to me

14. Talking bad about someone doesn't pay my bills

15. Everyone has a story. Try listening

16. You can't help anyone if you're not ok

17. You can't help someone who doesn't want to be helped

18. I am NOT a fixer!

19. I am a healer

20. Love is understanding + acceptance

21. No one is obligated to support you

22. Your job does not define you or your worth

23. If you thrive off of validation from others your feelings will be hurt more times you Can count.